Breaking Outside Your Shell

What are the best ways to network for shy people?

Answer

Networking works when it is authentic and comfortable.  So if you’re shy, cold-calling, large mixers, and public forums may not be good choices. 

Try group environments where you know some but not all people; you can practice mixing and there will be people there helping you along.  Also, try group activities that you really enjoy (e.g., company softball league); you will have the activity in common as the natural icebreaker. 

Finally, put yourself in situations where people have to come to you: Volunteer to organize a company party or put a candy dish on your desk.

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Caroline Ceniza-Levine is co-founder of SixFigureStart, a career coaching firm that equips professionals with the skills needed to launch six-figure careers. Caroline, an expert in career changing, is also a partner at Redseeds Consulting, a recruitment firm specializing in management consulting, and teaches professional development at Columbia University School of International and Public Affairs.

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